They’re just ‘slut-shaming’ shaming you for an activity that they can only view as somehow ‘sexual’. Somehow I don’t think that it would be viewed that way if men did it at the same rate that women partake in pole dancing. Misogynistic attacks are gross.

For some reason I assumed that you were lesbian previously due to your username, sorry about that!

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