Lovely Cagulong
6 min readSep 22, 2019

My Learnings in Purposive Communication

Communication is the solvent of all problems and is the foundation for personal development.

-Peter Shepherd

Purposive communication is very important in human lives, Specially to connect people and make relationship with them. we have to communicate to solve many problems, today there are engineers, graduates, technicians among others, who want to solve everything to perfection without effective communication and is not what should be done, we must communicate to convey information and change ideas to see how you can solve what you want and be satisfied with what we are going to solve. Communication is very useful now a days we can make this to have a better relationship to others and to understand each other. The importance of communication is that it removes confusion , confusions that may lead to pains, misunderstanding without a better communication. I do believe that commucation is the only way or key to open the secret of better life. A good communication leads to clarity. A better communication leads to a good and lasting relationship . Communication is very vital say for example in a relationship to be open to each other and to remove the doubts. Communication is serves as a bridge which connects every people to understand each other to listen to their thoughts and perception.
Communications is fundamental to the existence and survival of humans as well as to an organization. It is a process of creating and sharing ideas, information, views, facts, feelings, etc. among the people to reach a common understanding.

Communication may be done with Verbal,and non-verbal.
Verbal is communication is the use of language to transfer information through speaking or sign language, It includes sounds, words, or speaking. In short a face to face conversation.
Non-verbal communication is communication between people through non-verbal or visual cues. This includes gestures, facial expressions, body movement, timing, touch, and anything else that communicates without speaking. We, as a human use to communicate because it is the only way that you can express your thoughts and ideas that also can share your feelings towards the person you are talking, some other day we lack of confidence in communicating not all the time we can easily talk to them because there are times that we can not share our ideas because we don't have enough confidence to face our fear, some has the ability to communicate well and some is not because of their environment or where they grown up it is depend on where they came from. each one of us is different in communicating other people.

"To effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others."
-Tony Robbins

The one reason why we are struggling in terms of communication just because of the barriers that may occur while talking barriers is always around just for example when we talk to a person while we have a sore throat we can speak well when we are not feeling well and one example too is having conversation while the surroundings is noisy we can not deliver well our message to the person who we are talking with. Though mute people cannot express thier thoughts well but they do their best to communicate to others, they use non verbal communication and still they give such courage to do things that he/she can not do what normal peoples do.

I’ve learn a lot about communication just like Spoken and Written language. Spoken language is a language produced by articulate sounds, as opposed to written language.
Speech is usually transient, unless recorded, and speakers can correct themselves and change their utterances as they go along and it can use timing, tone, volume, and timbre to add emotional context and usually used for immediate interactions.

Written language is the written form of communication which includes both reading and writing. Writing is usually permanent and written texts cannot usually be changed once they have been printed/written out. Also can make use of punctuation, headings, layout, colours and other graphical effects in their written texts. Such things are not available in speech, and A written text can communicate across time and space for as long as the particular language and writing system is still understood.

We have lots of way to communicate one of the best way to communicate them is internet, if someone you know is far from you use technologies just like cellphone, laptop or any other devices that can communicate to your friends, through this gadgets we can make easy to talk to them just like messenger. In this way we can still at touch with the person we love we still there to talk and to share ideas each other and through this the relationship of the two person or family can not be lost.

" I think it's fair to say that personal computers have become the most empowering tool we've ever created. They're tools of communication, they're tools of creativity, and they can be shaped by their user."
-Bill Gates

At last Communication is very essential to every human's life. We must know how to communicate in order for us to be a good individual, knowing that we are filipino, which is a filipino is always competitive in all kind of challenges or activities. We must apply the good value of the purpose of the communication because it help us improve our knowledge and learning in life that we can use in everyday lives.
"Learning and developing good communication skills can help you succeed in your career, make you a competitive job candidate and build your network. While it takes time and practice, communication and interpersonal skills are certainly able to be both increased and refined."

"Communication leads to community, that is, to understanding, intimacy and mutual valuing".

-Rollo May

"As long as there is communication, everything can be solved."
-Robert Trujillo