Published inGay MagLiving TogetherOn communal living and sharing spaceJan 9, 2020A response icon5Jan 9, 2020A response icon5
Published inGay MagColumn of LightThoughts on gratitudeNov 27, 2019A response icon1Nov 27, 2019A response icon1
Published inGay MagThe Body’s Evolving DesireArtist and poet Larissa Pham on sex, metamorphosis, and the benefit to burningApr 24, 2018A response icon9Apr 24, 2018A response icon9
Published inYears in Reviewthe year in truth-tellingI began this year wrapping up Cum Shots, a newsletter I’d started writing June of 2015, because I thought I was in love and it certainly…Dec 23, 2016A response icon2Dec 23, 2016A response icon2
I had a reading scheduled for tonight.My day job is in trauma and anti-violence, so I’m always keeping tabs on what happens to who and where and when and how, and if hate is…Jul 8, 2016A response icon1Jul 8, 2016A response icon1
Published inYears in Review2015: A Year in ReviewAt some point over the summer while I was putting an event into the calendar on my phone, I realized that the way Apple does it, an entire…Dec 18, 2015Dec 18, 2015
GhostsWhat happens when by the time you publish an essay it’s a part of you you can no longer access?Apr 10, 2015Apr 10, 2015
On Crying in Public & Emotional Live-tweetingNobody likes crying in public, especially if you’re crying alone.Jan 3, 2014Jan 3, 2014
Published inHuman PartsThis Is A Story“I miss fucking you” is a loose end. “I miss you” is a loose end. To leave is neat; to stop is narratively satisfying.Dec 30, 2013Dec 30, 2013
