Chaotic surroundings = need to escape
I recently quit a life long (25+ years) addiction to opiates. No one else is living on my sober plane — no one that I live with, that is. Except my grandchildren. I spend as much time with them as I can, but my phone (4 months new) is adult stimulation. My therapist has talked about mindfulness, and it sounds right. Just not quite yet…
Point is, I believe that you are totally correct. I hope that I am not being wrong, I’m just not sure yet.