5 Things I Love About Male Chastity
My girlfriend and I practice our own form of male chastity and we love what it brings to our relationship. I don’t always wear a chastity cage (though sometimes I do), and we don’t engage in traditional BDSM or feminization, but practicing male chastity has had enormous benefits for us.
How We Practice Male Chastity
My girlfriend and I have a signed contract. She owns my cock and as such, only she is allowed to use it. I’m never allowed to masturbate unless we’re together and she gives me permission. Generally, we’re on the honor system, and I’ve never strayed. If I ever feel tempted to touch myself or if my erections get in the way of sleep, I’ll put on the chastity cage and will lock the key in a timed safe.

Our sex has always been quite passionate and frequent, though now it’s even more so. We both love that I’m always in the mood and that I love giving her oral sex. We still engage in intercourse, but when I’m approaching orgasm, I’ll pull out and begin to give her oral until she cums, after which we’ll usually cuddle until she falls asleep in my arms.
Our understanding is that I simply won’t orgasm, except under very specific circumstances. Obviously, nocturnal emissions can’t be controlled. Also, I sometimes experience a ruined orgasm as I’m penetrating her, which is acceptable as it still leaves me feeling horny. We’ve discovered that I get so excited from rimming her that it’s enough to make me cum, and I’m free to orgasm anytime from that, though it usually will take several weeks of denial before I’m aroused enough for that to happen. And sometimes she just decides she wants me to cum inside of her. For example, last weekend during intercourse I let her know that I was getting close and she asked me to cum inside of her. It had been two weeks since my last orgasm, and it felt amazing to allow myself a full release.
I’m Always Aroused and Ready to Please Her
My girlfriend loves that I’m always in the mood. She never hears the “I’m too tired” or “I have a headache” excuse. Whenever she’s in the mood, she knows that I’ll be there ready to please her. And that doesn’t always mean sex. If she’s in the mood for intimacy but not in the mood for sex, I’ll give her a foot massage, or we’ll just cuddle and kiss. Since she knows that there’s not obligation or pressure to make sure that I orgasm, we can go whatever feels comfortable at the moment and whatever she’s in the mood for and I’ll gladly go along with it.
When I’m in a constant state of arousal, I only want to please her whether that means sex or some other form of intimacy. It doesn’t have to end with sex, and that takes a lot of pressure off of her.
She Never Has to Be Concerned About Satisfying Me
It took a little while for my girlfriend to feel comfortable with it, but now she feels totally comfortable going to sleep immediately after her orgasm without being concerned about giving me an orgasm. I love seeing her embrace this side of her sexuality that some would consider selfish. What began as my enjoyment of a slightly masochistic nature (my orgasm denial) now feels more like a gift to her. I’ve gifted her the ability to simply relax and enjoy how much I love satisfying her. I get such a tremendous amount of enjoyment and satisfaction from bringing her to orgasm and from seeing how satisfied it makes her that that’s enough for me to be satisfied myself. I absolutely love holding her in my arms and cuddling with her in her post-orgasmic glow as I wait for my erection to settle down so I can go to sleep.
I gladly give up my sexual release in order to see her glowing and completely satisfied. Whenever I feel extremely aroused and horny, it’s a reminder of my gift to her.
Frequent Orgasms
Of course the obvious benefit for my girlfriend is that she has more orgasms now than she ever had in her entire life. Sometimes I’ll give her oral even if she says she’s still satisfied and she then discovers that it’s possible to become even MORE satisfied. Of course, if she isn’t in the mood or doesn’t want sex (which is seldom) I won’t pressure her.
Her friends have even begun to notice that her skin looks clearer and that she seems even more glowing and incredibly relaxed. They don’t know the true reasons, but some of them suspect.
It Brings Us Closer Together
The constant denial of my orgasms and my girlfriend’s ownership of my cock is our little secret, and it brings us closer together. We love knowing that we have this little secret that nobody else could even guess. Also, having complete control over something as intimate as one’s orgasms and cock is about as intimate as it gets. My girlfriend loves knowing that she is the only one who ever gets to touch my penis, and that I never masturbate. At this point, I’ve not masturbated in over a year unless I was doing so while she watched me.
I Feel Closer to Her When We’re Apart
Feeling constantly aroused when I’m away from my girlfriend actually makes me feel closer to her. In the psychology of her ownership of my cock, feeling arousal and/or an erection when she’s not around makes me feel like she’s with me. When I need to put on the chastity cage, it’s a constant reminder of my promise to her, and the cage feels like I’ve got her hand constantly wrapped around my private parts.
Constant Euphoria and Bliss
You might think that going so long without an orgasm would be incredibly frustrating. Actually, it’s quite the opposite. Each time she touches me anywhere on my body is even more exciting and arousing than the previous time. My constant state of arousal leaves me in a constant euphoria and blissful state. I actually feel just a little bit disappointed when she asks me to cum, though since usually it’s been after a long wait, it’s also incredibly satisfying. But after an orgasm, I can’t wait for the constant arousal to begin again. As she’s been having me wait longer and longer, it takes much less time for the constant arousal to being again.
My Orgasms are Longer and More Intense
On those rare occasions when I do orgasm, the experience is longer than ever before and the orgasm is more intense than I’ve ever experienced in my life. My girlfriend loves this too and finds it incredibly hot.
Summary
I could think of so many other benefits to practicing male chastity, and I’ll write about it in future posts. Our sex is incredibly passionate, intense, and frequent, and I wouldn’t change how we do it for anything.
