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While I agree with almost every specific case cited here, I’m not convinced that “mansplaining” is ever appropriate. Nobody would stand for terms like “Jewsplaining” or “gaysplaining”, no matter how carefully they were used. Condescension is condescension, no matter the gender of the perpetrator. Either we’re opposed to gender essentialism or we’re not.

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