Luna Ruven
Aug 24, 2017 · 1 min read

I recently have been exploring the concept of Symbiosis, applying it to my relationships. The two forms that I feel are worthy to strive for are mutualistic and commensualistic, mutually beneficial or beneficial to one party without affecting the other. The other forms of Symbiosis are unhealthy in my opinion.

The word "commensalism" is derived from the word "commensal", meaning "eating at the same table" in human social interaction, which in turn comes through French from the Latin commensalis, meaning "sharing a table", from the prefix com-, meaning "together", and mensa, meaning "table" or "meal". Via Wikipedia

While mutualistic relationships seem like a worthy goal, I can never exactly control what kind of benefit others are receiving in my company, so I have resolved to concentrate my mindspace on deriving fulfillment in their company and making sure our interactions will steer clear of harm to the best of my ability.

I really like this analogy of setting the table, and inviting avenues of happiness, which for me, are often people who enrich my life, to share space and nourishment.

Thank you for a thoughtful article.

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Luna Ruven

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