I just don’t understand why some people actually think this doesn’t matter. I got into with someone yesterday over this very issue and I realized that they are carrying around anger. Obviously the anger is projected out onto their perceived reality. I don’t know what to think anymore. Why dominant society feels the need to fight marginalized groups who are hurting and grieving is beyond me. I am really disturbed right now. And I am so so sad about what people are having to go through for too long now.