As always, you are a joy to read. And I so appreciated where you wove in the anti-butch/femme arguments forwarded by heterosexual feminists back in the day. The parallels are enormous.
It’s frequent and frustrating how people who claim to seek equality really mean they want their group on top and to hell with everyone else. That is, except for the straight cis white males who are already there. It’s playing the power structure’s game and reinforcing hierarchies that need to be torn down.