Do you mind if I ask you what you want? Are you trying to shame others into changing how they feel about obesity?
If you are truly happy and comfortable in your skin, that’s utterly fantastic. I think when that starts to happen, you find that you truly don’t give a damn what anyone thinks. :) Existence is a pretty strange thing — a fascinating thing — and there is so much more to it than worrying about/obsessing about others’ reactions to the size of your body.
I love your writing, by the way.