Amen and bravo! I too have been party to the bullshit and perpetration of objectification and other atrocities in too many ways to count. I’ve been working to undo this for years now, and it is possible, but it requires a commitment to the values and principles of real ethics and human decency that most of us have somehow forgotten, never been taught, or choose to ignore. There isn’t a man alive (XY chromosome carrier, just to be specific) who is not party to this just because he may have never actively done anything. Like you said, it’s all men, and I want to believe that we can do something about it before my days are up.