Joe, you are mixing up adoption and abortion. The two have nothing to do with each other. A woman can choose whether or not to continue her pregnancy and it’s only after the decision to continue that the issue of parenting comes into play for both the mother and father. Not everyone deserves to be a parent and if nature decides to make someone infertile there is a good reason for that. Taking another person’s child doesn’t change the basic facts. It’s ridiculous for anyone to suggest that we would die if not adopted.