Mahima Gyamlani
4 min readSep 9, 2023
Starfly connects kids experiencing chronic illness or living with disability, improving outcomes and wellbeing by combating loneliness and isolation.

Starfly connects kids experiencing chronic illness or living with disability, improving outcomes and wellbeing by combating loneliness and isolation.

Did you know that over 40% of children in the United States suffer from chronic illness or permanent disabilities, yet this issue has received very little attention?

Summary

According to the CDC, over 40% of kids in the United States suffer from chronic illness or permanent disabilities, and these conditions often come with added mental health challenges. The importance of addressing these challenges is underscored by studies showing that nearly two-thirds of hospitalized children experience depression alongside their primary health concerns. My journey, driven by personal struggles, led to the creation of Starfly™ — an innovative solution that aims to provide a supportive community for children facing chronic health conditions while leveraging the potential of advanced technology and generative AI. This article delves into my journey, the inception of Starfly, and the promising potential of this app.

A Growth Journey

In 2013, my family and I moved from Houston, Texas to New Delhi, India. While I was only 6 years old, I vividly remember the excitement of being in a new country and making new friends, but fate had different plans. Within days at my new school, a classmate started mocking me. Like ripples, other students joined in, and eventually, the bullying turned physical. My American accent marked me as an outsider, and in a place where everything seemed unfamiliar — culture, language, people — I felt misplaced.

Feeling like an outcast, I responded in a way that felt logical to me: not engaging, instinctively hiding behind a wall of silence to protect myself from everyone’s harsh words. For over three years, my voice was heard only by my parents and a select few. Worried, my parents took me to multiple doctors, and I was ultimately diagnosed with selective mutism, an anxiety-driven inability to speak in certain social situations.

Fortunately, I was surrounded by family and friends who offered immense affection and unwavering support, which eventually led to a pivotal moment: breaking my silence during a school assembly. This small victory ignited a transformation that propelled me into the world of mental health advocacy.

The Birth of Starfly: A New Hope

Drawing from my own experiences, I recognized the importance of creating an inclusive platform for children with chronic illnesses — a place where they could find acceptance and camaraderie. Starfly was born from this vision, an app designed to connect these children with their peers and foster positive interactions devoid of stigma. The app’s foundation is built on the power of social connections and the potential of advanced AI technology.

Overcoming Isolation

The app’s focus on art and creativity creates a welcoming space for children to engage with others in a positive environment, reducing feelings of isolation and loneliness. By offering various forms of communication, such as collaborative art, text, and video chat, Starfly provides a safe haven for children to connect without societal pressures.

From Vision to Reality: Starfly’s Progress and Promise

Starfly is now available for download on Google Play and the App Store, and its beta testing phase marks the beginning of its mission to empower children with chronic illnesses worldwide. My vision for Starfly goes beyond simple connectivity; it encompasses a comprehensive assessment toolkit that will provide valuable insights into users’ mental well-being. With the aid of AI-generated reports, medical professionals can gain a deeper understanding of their patients’ emotional states and offer more targeted care.

Charting the Path Ahead

The ambition of Starfly is to become an aid for children with chronic illnesses, offering them the support they need to navigate the isolation and other challenges they face on a daily basis. As the app continues to evolve, I remain committed to creating a safe and engaging environment for children. By gradually expanding its reach to more children who could benefit from the app and establishing partnerships with institutions and parent groups, Starfly aims to make a meaningful contribution to pediatric mental health.

Conclusion: Empowering a Generation

Starfly aims to redefine the landscape of children’s mental health by leveraging technology and the strength of shared experiences to reduce the isolation and mental health challenges of children facing chronic health conditions. Learn more about Starfly at www.starfly.social, and if you or your loved ones meet our criteria, please join the waitlist, and we will soon enroll you in the app. The app is in Beta version on the App Store and Google Play.

If you find this article useful, please follow me for more. As a young founder, I need all the encouragement, support, and guidance that I can get! I have also shared my experience in a TedX talk. I would love your reflections and feedback in the YouTube comment section itself!