Winning Hearts

It is Human psychology to be loved by others. Everyone wants to get the central importance. “Dale Carnegie” a great writer also elaborated this Human nature to be loved in his book named “How to Win Friends and Influence People” . He said “You can make more friends in 2 months by becoming interested in other people than you can in 2 years by trying to get other people interested in you”. So, showing the interest in other people will automatically make us important for them.We should not force people to show their interest in us rather we should give them importance, letting them feel that they are extremely important for us and then simultaneously we will become special for them. As “Dale Carnegie” said that “ If we want to make friends, lets greet people with animation and enthusiasm” and Roman poet said “We are interested in other when they are interested in us”. So if we want be to loved by people, seek attention of people, it is extremely necessary to show our enthusiasm and interest in people to make them feel special and then automatically they will care for us and give us importance.

Applying the rule of being interested rather then being interesting in our daily life could help us a lot in all aspects of life and it ultimately lead us to be loved. By giving importance to other people like friends, family, teacher, fellows and even strangers will give us the central importance because everyone wants to seek importance even in a group picture a person looks for himself. Even a survey done in New York proved that most used word by people is “I”. So, by focusing on people’s “I” will automatically convert to “You”. We just have to show our emotional attachment to people, giving them importance showing our interest and enthusiasm and we will definitely win their “Love and Hearts”. So it’s a 2 way road benefiting both parties just by spending time and energy and showing love and kindness.

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