A lot of this can be solved by refusing to marry man-children who refuse to do laundry or help with…

but sometimes it’s not that clear-cut. My BF is great with visible tasks (he does laundry, does dishes, waters plants, feeds the cat. I have fed the cat like twice since we got her in September) but doesn’t see certain, more subtle things that I care about but he doesn’t. Result? Endless conversations about it/them/what is fair.

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