I notice all your comments are sexually biased as the male being the bad one, “Makes her feel bad about herself”, I’m sorry but us men get it as much if not more but being the “stronger “ sex we have to “get over it you wimp”. Well some of us don't do so well. Having been told “jokingly” for many years, “ I could replace you in half an hour” after 25 years of happy(i thought) marriage I find I have a debilitating disease which put me in a wheelchair, my other half started an affair within months of the news. Its not until you sit back and think of the years you’ve been told how crap you are at this or that and so in so was better at this, you realise whats happened. Mine ended in such a depression I decided to find them and confront them, with dire consequences as I ended up in a chase which caused the death of her “mate” and my incarceration for 4 and a half years in prison for manslaughter. I’ve been out 18 months, stupidly trying to make a go of it with my wife who still treats me like dirt but at 56 and wheelchair-bound what chance have I of finding new love. Life sucks and then you die.