Last week in Zambia, a video went viral on social media. I refused to watch this video based on what I heard about it alone — a man raping his girlfriend while four of his friends watched, then at least one followed in the act. Yes. A woman was raped by a man she trusted, someone filmed it and sent it to other people to watch, share and … enjoy, presumably, though I can’t imagine how that’s possible.

Yesterday, far away in Baton Rouge a black man was shot dead by a police officer. Hours later in another part of the country, another black man was shot dead by another police officer. I haven’t seen either of these images. …


Mali Kambandu

Mali plays at being a writer, dreams of being a kid like her two little people and was duped into marrying for love.

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