What Women Want

Towards a New Psychology of Love, Sex and Gender Relations

“Men and women have searched for each other for generations and always missed one another” — Dieter Duhm

Contents

Re-Inventing Feminism

Sexual Polarity according to David Deida

Sexual Polarity for Women

Sexual Polarity for Men

How to Find Out More

Abstract

This paper is an attempt to redefine the concepts of “masculine” and “feminine” not as gender roles, but as psychological archetypes that affect all human relationships whether we are aware of them or not. It extends David Deida’s ideas on sexual polarity into the realm of human loving: because if it is true, as per Deida, that people have a preferred sexual polarity; and if it is true, as per Jerry Judd, that “love is a response to need”, then masculine and feminine people have different needs and therefore must be loved differently.

Once the fundamental sexual polarity model is explained, the paper goes on to present actionable strategies for men and women to increase love and attraction with their partners. The ideas presented here are eminently practical and have the power to dramatically transform a person’s relationship to the opposite sex. They also have the power to finally fulfill on the promises of feminism, but much faster and more pleasurably for everyone: that women should have the same respect and opportunities that men have; that women should not be subject to male violence; and that women should not be shamed for being sexual beings. The reason these ideas are so powerful is that they carry the potential, for maybe the first time in human history, for men and women to become real partners by truly understanding each other and connecting through their differences.

Re-Inventing Feminism

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