My take-home from this is that while it appears that monogamy is the way to go in 2016, it is easier for women than it is for men. In my faith where it is permissible for men to be polygamous (provided they can be just and equitable to each of the 2, 3 or 4 wives), you find that a man can be happily married to one woman and then he just decides to marry another. Its as simple as that. Im giving this example to buttress the point that monogamy is not easy for men as it is for women. He can look for another woman no matter how much he loves one woman.