I have a friend who once thought she was having a relationship with a married man. It turned out that all the stories, all the photos of himself with kids, the supposed wife- they were all his brother’s family. He was single and pretending to be married and have a family freed him any possibility of commitment. He was already supposedly lying to his spouse, but was also lying to my friend. If a man would lie to his wife and family, there’s no reason he won’t lie to you. Are you safe with a liar? Is love built on a series of lies really love?