5 days agoPerilous Parenting Part 6: 6 Reasons Parents Interfere and 10 Tips for CopingIn our last blog, we looked broadly at interfering parents. Here, let’s examine the possible reasons why parents interfere in their children’s lives. Six common reasons for interfering in their children’s lives may include: Entitlement — parents feel that they brought you into the world and helped you grow up…Parenting3 min read
Jul 27Perilous Parenting Part 5: Interfering Parents — An OverviewTypically, parents want to decide what is good or ‘right’ for their babies and children. This starts as soon as the babies are born, with how to dress them, what color the clothes will be and of course, the children’s names. As the children grow older, parents decide which school…Parenting3 min read
Jul 224 Values that Made us FoodpreneursSince I was 16, I’ve been cooking, baking, and pretty much obsessed with experimenting with flavors and forms. As a result of this obsession, I began writing cookbooks, and soon my intrepid partner in crime, Dr. Margaret Cornelius, joined me. We have produced six plant-based cookbooks since 2015. …Treats3 min read
Jul 15(Racial) Microaggressions in Paradise…AgainWe were recently at a resort that is considered the number 1 family resort in Fiji. Indeed, we were there for a family event. Upon check in at 2pm, I was told the check in time was actually 3pm. When I pointed out the mistake in my email confirmation, I…Racism3 min read
Jul 8Integration of the Self: 10 Streams of ServicesRecently I was speaking to my cousin and sister-in-law about my work. They were asking about a recent offering we are developing: teaching life skills courses through Pacific Polytech — a new national vocational training center in Fiji. This conversation got me thinking about how Alchemus Prime’s services are connected…Authenticity4 min read
Jul 1Perilous Parenting Part 4: 5 Effects of Avoidant Parents on their ChildrenAs part of our Perilous Parenting series on Beyond Medicine, we discussed the effects of absent or avoidant parents. Some first-time parents may have no idea how to cope with babies and children especially in the absence of extended families or due to traumatic experiences with their own parents. Some…Parenting2 min read
Jun 24Perilous Parenting — Part 3: 7 Ways to Deal with Narcissistic ParentsNarcissism is a type of mental illness and personality disorder, where a person feels that they are special and entitled. They have an inflated sense of importance for themselves, want to be given special treatment, think they know everything and they do not have empathy for others. …Narcissism3 min read
Jun 177 Ways to Stop Internalizing PatriarchyI’ve noticed in the last several workshops I’ve facilitated, that feminists, like the rest of us, have internalized patriarchal ways of being. Indeed, I wrote about it in the last of my Bridgerton posts. And, we are often unaware of the fact that we are embodying the toxic patriarchy. So…Feminist3 min read
Jun 10Perilous Parenting Part 2: 10 Ways to Bridge the Generation GapIt is an accepted fact that the rate of change in the 21st century is far greater than a century back. This contributes to the generation gap in families, especially if parents don’t learn about current trends in technology, travel, and careers. …Parenting2 min read
Jun 38 Wounds of Prejudice and Patriarchy: Healing ParadiseIt’s rare that I am left speechless by anything. I am, after all, someone who writes a lot. But recently, a play by Larry Thomas did just that…it left me without any words to describe my experience. It was as if someone had taken key aspects of my life and…Patriarchy4 min read