SUICIDE LITE

“He shot his head clean off,” my aunt cried about my Uncle Lyle. Bone fragments scattered red and white on the kitchen floor.

We used to call this conduct “suicide,” the act of killing oneself on purpose. But no more. Now it’s not Lyle, not even the gun but PTSD from World War II that’s the perpetrator.

Decades later, my sister Margaret’s older son, Thom Dent, plopped down on the doorstep of a girl who had snubbed him and blew his head off.

Suicide? No. Just teenage hormones.

Then my mother killed herself by refusing to eat. She had grown tired of her weak brittle bones repeatedly shattering.

Suicide? No. Death by osteoporosis.

This July, my sister Margaret Dent died. A few weeks later, her younger son, Steve Dent, donned his good business suit, drove to the edge of town and began to play “All the Way,” Margaret’s favorite Frank Sinatra tune. Then Steve shot himself through his heart.

Suicide? “Grief killed him,” I said, but no, my therapist cried, “Rage!”

Earlier that July, my cousin, Thomas D. Coffey, put a bullet in his brain. He was 66, in physical pain and eating pain killers.

Suicide? No. A victim of the current opioid epidemic.

Remember when we stopped saying “dead” but used the euphemism, “passed,” instead?

Now “suicide” is the bad word. We seem unable to bear the brute thought of self-killing so we downsize to PTSD or hormones or grief or rage or opiates as the killers, not people.

I call this Suicide Lite.

written for:

a JoLt of CoFFeY 
 An Intermittent Newsletter
by Marilyn June Coffey

The author of:
A Cretan Cycle: “A single, sharp, funny story in verse” retells the Minotaur’s myth 
Great Plains Patchwork: A lyric tale of the “wondrous strange” great plains
JackJack & JuneBug: A steamy, poignant love story (with Jack Loscutoff)
Mail-Order Kid: A popular biography of Teresa Martin, an orphan train rider
Marcella: A controversial, internationally published coming-of-age novel
Mas — tur — ba — tion: A rollicking tract on a “quite inexhaustible” subject
Pricksongs: A libidinous collection of tart poems from the turbulent sixties
That Punk Jimmy Hoffa: A memoir depicts how Coffey’s father beat Hoffa
The Battle of Orleans: A documentary about a hotly disputed Marcella reading 
Thieves, Rascals & Sore Losers: Details the dirty deals that helped settle Nebraska

& publisher of Jack Loscutoff’s latest books:
Aunt Gussie’s Socks: A Russian-American based memoir (in fact and fiction)
A Line of Shorts: The breezy short stories and holy satires of an awesome wordsmith

Buy Coffey’s & Loscutoff’s books: 
from www.marilyncoffey.net or www.jackloscutoff.com or http://amazon.com/