there are times I am ashamed and disgusted to be a man and angry for the victim — your writing inspired all those responses. I have three daughters now in their 30’s and I so hope they were never raped, but I hope if they had been they would tell me; not that I could do anything but it might be helpful to share their story with a man. I am glad to read that you have put all this behind you and thank you for being brave and writing this awful story. For the little its worth I am sorry, very sorry, that any man ever thinks he has the right to do this and walk away unscathed.
hugs if you want them