Sending My Kid to College — A Dad’s Perspective

markfriedler
Sep 4, 2018 · 2 min read

I am proud of my son. At 18, he’s my first born, has grown into a fine young man ready to spread his wings and head out into the world. The next step is going to college. Later this week, we will drop him off in his dorm out of state. We’ve worked towards this moment for a long time however it’s going to be hard to say goodbye. As a man and a father, it’s not easy to face and confront emotions. I’ve been sad over his leaving and I’ve spoken with many dads lately and realize many of us are having a tough time suffering in stoic silence. I am having a hard time and I’ve spoken to friends sending their kids off who feel the same way.

As a man and a father, it’s not easy to face and confront emotions.

I look at him the last week “in the nest” and remember all the times through his childhood like a greatest hits reel. His 1st birthday, going to pre-school, learning to ride a bike, starting elementary school, playing on little kids sports teams, middle school, sending him to summer camp, the early teen years, playing competitive soccer and traveling to tournaments all over the place, homework, fights with his brother, glued to his iPhone, hanging with his friends, high school graduation, summer job, college orientation. Now we’re packing him up for the big moving day.

I know this is a natural progression and it’s the next step in his growing up. The fact remains that I really enjoy spending time with my son. Over the past year, we’ve had so many great times together, deep conversations and shared moments that are now between 2 men and not just a father and his little boy. I love his company and am super grateful when he invites me into his room or asks if I want to do something with him. I will miss those spontaneous moments and being able to see him every day.

I wish him all the best and hope he grows, experiences many exciting ideas, experiences and people. I hope has fun and makes good decisions and this is the first step to many great things ahead. As his dad, I’ll be holding down the fort and looking forward to hearing about his new life. I send all of you a big hug for you and your kids and offer support in this exciting yet difficult time of transition.

markfriedler

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Entrepreneur, CEO. Sales,Bus Dev,Mktg leader, builder. Blockchain, crypto, advisor to 12 platforms. Esports, Fintech, Dapps, games, SaaS, Cryptomondays

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