PinnedWhy I Am Proud To Be AutisticWhen you shuffle a pack of playing cards, you more than likely end up with them in an order that has never been seen before, anywhere, at…Jan 24, 20246Jan 24, 20246
PinnedI Am Autistic — I Do Not “Have” AutismMany years ago, I witnessed a conversation at a business conference that left me astonished and confused. Now, fair enough, as a…Jan 4, 202416Jan 4, 202416
Published inMy Head HurtsUnderstanding Autism: Are Neurotypicals Psychic?The neurotypical world feels deliberately inconsistent and illogical. So, how does everybody else always seem to understand what is going…2d ago22d ago2
Published inMy Head HurtsUnderstanding Autism: Am I Excusing Poor Behaviour by Others Because I am Autistic?Blaming appalling behaviour on autism is not ok. But do autistic people use our neurology to excuse bad behaviour in others instead of…Mar 169Mar 169
Published inMy Head HurtsUnderstanding Autism: Why I Would Happily Be a Hermit (With an Internet Connection, Obviously!)I seldom go out through choice, and I do not feel like I am missing out on anything by staying at home most of the time. When your needs…Mar 76Mar 76
Published inMy Head HurtsDebunking Autism Cure Myths: What Both Sides Get WrongWhen parents of autistic children seek a cure to help with their challenges, they often clash spectacularly with autistic adults who do not…Mar 15Mar 15
Published inMy Head HurtsUnderstanding Autism: Living With the Shame of Being MyselfAlways being the odd one out through no fault of your own means you quickly get labelled awkward or difficult. This brings a sense of shame…Feb 202Feb 202
Published inMy Head HurtsUnderstanding Autism: When Communicating Clearly is Viewed as OffensiveLike many autistic people, I tend to be blunt in what I say. But if I try to be more circumspect, others miss my point entirely. Does the…Feb 1522Feb 1522
Published inMy Head HurtsUnderstanding Autism: The Cost of Bouncing BackAutistic people often face constant setbacks, rejections, and exclusions. It is all very well to talk about becoming resilient, but each of…Feb 77Feb 77
Published inMy Head HurtsUnderstanding Autism: The Agony and Ecstasy of Inertia and FlowI spend my life finding excuses not to get started and then enjoying the task once I do get going. So why do I never learn?!Feb 17Feb 17