The Psychology of Traffic Jams: Why We Get Frustrated in Congestion and How to Overcome It

Carly Danica
2 min readJan 8, 2023

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Traffic jams can be a source of frustration and stress for many people. Here are a few psychological factors that contribute to this frustration, and some strategies for overcoming it:

Lack of control: One of the main reasons that people get frustrated in traffic is because they feel like they have no control over the situation. Being stuck in a traffic jam can make people feel powerless, which can lead to frustration and stress.

Time pressure: Traffic jams can also be frustrating because they can make people feel like they are running out of time. If someone is stuck in a traffic jam on their way to work or an important appointment, they may feel like they are wasting valuable time.

Anticipation of negative outcomes: Another reason that people may get frustrated in traffic is because they anticipate negative outcomes as a result of the delay. For example, someone may worry that they will be late for work or that they will miss an important meeting.

To overcome these feelings of frustration in traffic, it can be helpful to try the following strategies:

Take deep breaths: Deep breathing can help to calm the mind and reduce feelings of stress and anxiety.

Practice mindfulness: Focusing on the present moment can help to reduce feelings of stress and frustration. Try to pay attention to your breath or the sights and sounds around you, rather than focusing on negative thoughts about the traffic.

Accept the situation: While it may be difficult, try to accept that you are stuck in traffic and that there is nothing you can do to change the situation. This can help to reduce feelings of frustration and stress.

Find ways to relax: Listen to music, read a book, or do some other activity that helps you to relax. This can help to take your mind off the traffic and reduce feelings of frustration.

Overall, traffic jams can be a source of frustration and stress, but there are strategies you can use to overcome these feelings and stay calm in the face of congestion.

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Carly Danica

Plant Biology PhD | Pollination biologist | AAAS Science & Technology Policy Fellow Alum