Out the Window
It took me years to figure out how to make life easier, business bigger, and results better.
Books, courses, trips to foreign cities to sell my handmade suits, complicated mental frameworks and business growth strategies, people and places and all kinds of efforts to try and add something in that would then make the difference and make everything better.
Whilst, of course, completely ignoring the advice that my abbot had given me over my 12 years in a monastery.
In the end though, I finally got the memo:
Things get better not when you add stuff in, but when you eliminate.
And somehow, that seems the hardest thing to do.
Just like an attic fills up by itself until its full, our lives fill up with *stuff*, until we’re full up, overwhelmed, confused, stuck, lost.
And then we go out to find yet another book, training, or manual, thinking that the problem is we’ve got the wrong information, or we’re lacking something.
But nope, it’s all much simpler:
We’ve got too much information.
In our heads, on our bookshelves, on our hard drives.
Too many conversations, on Messenger and Whatsapp and Instagram.
Too many social media profiles, too many lists we’re subscribed to, too many forums we participate in… too. much. stuff!
And as they say: the solution to ‘too much’ is never ‘more’.
So take it from a recovering monk: if you want things to get better, get rid of the stuff that doesn’t actually, demonstrably make things better, whilst — and this is important — not taking time, space, or attention away from other things.
Because it’s easy to justify having a second or third instagram account — it might make things better.
But if that’s at the cost of spending more time on something that has a bigger impact (email marketing, anyone?), then you’re better served writing dailies, instead of tending to your second and third IG accounts.
Whether the ‘thing’ slipped into your life unnoticed or it was a decision: if ever you feel like there’s just too much stuff and too little time, ask yourself if this thing or that thing actually should be in your life.
Every thing in life (including relationship and habits and so on) has a certain cost, and if you want more calm, focus, clarity and results, you’ll want to ask yourself if thing A or B or Z is worth the cost.
Out the window.
Yes it’s a bit radical. And yes, it gets you radical change in your life and your business.
Don’t add in — eliminate.
Create space for what really matter and what really works.
Originally published at MartinStellar.com.