Spoonie Secrets: Issue #3

A safe space for people with chronic illness where they can share untold truths without the risk of being exposed and the fear of hurting the people around them.

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Trigger Warning: Contains confessions about sexual abuse & suicide

1. I am afraid I might resort back to being agoraphobic.

2. I am so tired with constantly “holding it together”

3. On the really bad days I wonder if my life is worth the pain and suffering. I don’t want to kill myself, but the freedom of non-existence sounds better than this life.

4. I miss who I used to be. This new life may not be worth living.

5. I was raped as a teen, which made it hard for me to understand my worth. My diagnosis empowered me to make a positive impact. Now, I work to empower others.

6. I’m scared that I’ll always have to rely on others financially. I can only work part time. I crave autonomy but it seems out of reach.

7. When we broke up, it crossed my mind that it was partly my fault because I couldn’t give the support that you needed. I had so much physical limitations that I said ‘no’ a lot of times. I don’t believe that thought anymore but I just wanna let it out now.

8. Rumor has it that she was forced to resign because of her illness. Well, I got the same illness. But I’m not telling anyone. I don’t want to lose my job. I just can’t afford to take that risk.

9. When I was in a meeting and I could see a flare coming, I would make up excuses to go out, hide in a cool room and take a pill. I lost count how many times this happened. Amazing, I was so fast to think of lies.

10. I didn’t trust my doctor.

Your Turn

Which confession resonates with you most?

Do you have a chronic illness? What is your deepest secret? If you’re ready to share, send it (anonymously) here.

Did you miss the previous issues? Read Issues #1 and #2.