The Power of Your Inner Circle

Mary Guirovich
3 min readApr 12, 2022

Have you ever considered if the people in your inner circle are helping you advance in your career or if they’re actually holding you back from achieving your goals? The surprising thing is studies have shown that our lives are often the result of the 5 people we spend the most time with. If we were to take the average salary of the top 5 people you surround yourself with, chances are the average would be close to what you are currently earning.

Our inner circle has the biggest influence on us which is why we ought to pay close attention to who is giving us advice, especially if we are looking to level-up in life. Today, I’m sharing 3 important questions to help you decipher whether or not your people are helping you or holding you back as well as 3 crucial steps you can take to change it.

  1. How does your inner circle make you feel? Do you leave every conversation feeling encouraged or exhausted? Do they inspire you to go after your goals and do they have goals themselves? Have they achieved something in life that you haven’t? Are they moving through challenges or are they seemingly stuck playing the victim? We have the tendency, especially as women, to connect around negativity. It’s a sort of comfort when things aren’t going well to bond with others whose lives are also in disarray of some kind. However, while these experiences are relatable, they are not exactly…

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Mary Guirovich

Mary Guirovich is the CEO of My Promotion Plan a company that empowers women to go from passed over to promoted. And the author of “God’s Not Done with You.”