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Mary Zwilling

Mary Zwilling

What am I doing Better these Days in Undoing my Childhood Training?

Everyone’s trajectory is different in life, but following and practicing healing, here are things that were uncomfortable or impossible at…

2d ago

What am I doing Better these Days in Undoing my Childhood Training?

2d ago

Mary Zwilling

To what degree, and in which ways, did my parents love me?

“The more I read [about C-PTSD] the more every aspect of my personhood is reduced to diagnostic flaws. I hadn’t understood….how complete…

3d ago

To what degree, and in which ways, did my parents love me?

3d ago

Mary Zwilling

Life Will Always Be Complicated

As someone juggling life between counseling sessions, family, and daily life requirements, I found this statement to be a positive reminder…

Jun 15

Life Will Always Be Complicated

Jun 15

Mary Zwilling

You are NOT my Mother or Father.

When you yell at me, I will ignore you and feel nothing.I am not the little girl being yelled at and cruelly criticized by her mother. You…

May 20

You are NOT my Mother or Father.

May 20

Mary Zwilling

Pickleball Communication

For my favorite megalomaniac.

May 19

Pickleball Communication

May 19

Mary Zwilling

Changing my Love Patterns

I will start in-sourcing rather than out-sourcing self-love.

May 13

May 13

Mary Zwilling

Finding Solid Ground

Once you have been lost in psychological “no man’s land”, it is hard work to find your way back to ground that doesn’t shape-shift.

Apr 6

Finding Solid Ground

Apr 6

Mary Zwilling

Discomfort, Growth and Learning

“The best thing for being sad,” replied Merlin, beginning to puff and blow, “is to learn something. That’s the only thing that never fails…

Apr 5

Discomfort, Growth and Learning

Apr 5

Mary Zwilling

Dreaming or Awakening: Which is more painful?

Personally, I have found both equally painful when dreams have to be left behind and replaced with greater understanding of why they were…

Mar 25

Dreaming or Awakening: Which is more painful?

Mar 25

Mary Zwilling

Duh, finally realized that I was trying too hard.

Jeesh. I am a reasonably intelligent person. I think. But that is primarily in print and work. I stink at relationships and emotional work.

Mar 22

Duh, finally realized that I was trying too hard.

Mar 22

Mary Zwilling

Mary Zwilling

An extremely curious searcher with a background in education and counseling looking for roots, meaning, but mostly a peaceful place in life and the world.

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