Lou Reed and Laurie Anderson’s three rules for living
.. as told by Marina Abramovic.
(1) Have a strong bullshit detector for yourself and others.
(2) Don’t be afraid of anything or anyone.
Yesterday, a cis man casually approached me on the BART platform to chat even though I was reading. Last week, a cis man casually hit on me while I was in his car. And a few weeks ago, a cis man — my friendly corner store guy with whom I exchange pleasantries — tried casually to…