It’s not that different while being a male student. Most have been discussing the “If you want girls to like you …….”. There were few “alpha” males and females that didn’t have to bother with this, but the rest had to at least consider if they want to go with the “compromise way”. Some did, some didn’t, but I don’t see much gender difference in this. And of course education/critical thinking helps in doing such decisions. But once again i would be putting the same effort into encouraging any of my children independent of their gender to work on becoming great and evaluate criticism of other people.