At the end of the day you only have your own happiness to answer for. If you are miserable you won’t be much good to anybody else. I’m a greedy person. I only do things for others if it makes me feel good. Isn’t feeling good why we do anything that at we do? Don’t feel like you are being self serving. By serving yourself first, you will be able to serve so many others with a smile on your face. The only person who TRULY can care for you is you. Nobody else wheres you shoes, pays you bills, breathes your air. Not even your family can fully understand the way you are feeling. They can only tell you how you are supposed to feel.