I've never had a negative relationship with resilience, in fact I wear it as a badge of honor. As a black woman in America, I can't afford to think about how unfair life is. I can only focus on being personally strong of mind and nimble of Spirit to move in response to life in a way that keeps me dynamic and powerful. I live as the change I want to see. Living by example. Resilience is powerful and beautiful to me, I see it as a valuable trait for anyone to possess