Sex. I’ve learned a good bit listening to female and male peers over the years. I’m not going to run off a list of advice, but I will point out it’s surprising the number of men who didn’t abide by the simplest rule I’ve had since the beginning. Listen. A women, even soft spoken ones, will give you instruction during sex. All you have to do is listen. Sometimes it’s a simple verbal exchange - yes, harder. Sometimes it’s non-verbal - a deeper or louder moan. Those are instructions letting you know that that particular move or position is working, just follow the instructions. That’s a good place to begin.