You’re not an ally, you are a transphobic individual. The first step is knowing that you have this bias. Your words embody transgender exclusive feminism’s position. While you attempt to dress it up by saying you’ll fight for our rights.
Oh, and I’m not a transwoman, I’m a transman. By wanting to have “ciswoman” spaces only, you damn me to the women’s bathroom in public. Which can get me killed when some redneck sees what looks like a man walking into the ladies.
This is not feminism, this is pure bigotry.