Neurodiversity brings its dating challenges…. Being PolyAm solo doesn’t lighten the load! As more people realise that the scarcity mindset to love is about as useful as the scarcity mindset to wealth, there’s a growing community of non traditional relationships. Witness the rise in PolyAm, ENM, etc. …. and the…

The discomfort still burns 20 some years on….. I was 25 or 26 at the time: shy, awkward, little girlfriend experience, lived alone on a farm in rural Australia. My friends and siblings had left for the cities and I would visit next door neighbours a bit and we’d have…

This is not good or bad intrinsically, so let’s have a look at both. On dates I propose that I present a ready punching bag for frustrations with their offspring or partner/ex. It’s happened a bit. I’m happy to listen to stories about how hard it is. That’s simply someone’s…

Part 1 — Let the games be….. end….Please!?! The Netflix series “Love on the Spectrum” is too real…. I can’t watch it without breaking down. Easier to write. Part One: Fuck the Games! Really? You want the other person to have to guess? Subtext is invisible ink to some of…

Growing up, culture (or Kultur in German), was up there with religion and the laws of gravity. Deemed humanity’s pinnacle and put on a pedestal: everything from the Opera to food. So what even is this beast? Is it humanity at it’s best or simply groupthink writ large on a…

Caution: I’m feeling more sweary than usual even…. After my son stopped shitting on the couch (sandwich style between the cushion and couch base) I thought my time dealing with male babies was over….. and, I say this a lot, how wrong was I…. Man babies are the scourge that…

Dharma, purpose, that thing…. Looking, looking, looking, but never finding….. So what is our purpose? Whatever it is, it’s unlikely to be found in looking for it. …

Ah, another “day”. In this case father’s day. I’m dodging this bullet — my family know I don’t do the days and here’s why…. Days have always appeared as hollow, vacuous, and superficial to me. They pay tribute and assign roles to each participant with a checklist and that looming…

Why do we run from freedom? Like cows finding an open gate at the slaughterhouse only to circle around to the front and asking to be let back in…. True freedom also entails total responsibility for yourself and your actions. Perhaps this kills it for most people? How good’s it…