Thanks for the wry smile, and congrats! (i hope it doesn’t work in reverse. I’ve called myself a swan whisperer. If i show up to the pond and the birds all fly away from me, I will surely think of you!) Maybe it’s not so curious that you are an excellent writer on relationship, even though you aren’t in one. I speak about God, yet don’t belong to a church. You’ve come through a very dark tunnel, and can offer your insights. The world clearly needs this.