Shaming victims

mcube
mcube
Jul 27, 2017 · 1 min read

It is often the tactic by the abusive people to make their victim, look like they are responsible for the abuse being thrown at them. In society, the general public will not see the mask that these ‘predators’ wear, they have no idea about the manipulation that is causing them to not see the dark agenda.

As in most cases, the victim will question their own actions, begin to doubt themselves, and will eventually feel that they deserved this. This obviously is the work of the abuser; years of psychological, emotional manipulation and physical abuse will cause this behavior. Narcissists and others similar types will need someone, often times a family member to be the target of their problems, to take the blame, to shame them, to be the scapegoat.

Other members, including family, friends, neighbors will be prone to the manipulation tactics of the abuser. They will be manipulated, and coerced into blaming the ‘scapegoat’ for all the problems, and abuse them by proxy of the narcissists. In other cases, they will be humiliated and shamed by having their personal story out on the public, being on the media. It serves two purpose, by shaming and outing the scapegoat they cause the abuse, and the other they being on the media is their way to boost their ego.