How to date attractive women

How to date attractive women. This is a question that has been on or is on the mind of every single heterosexual man who has ever walked the face of the earth. It is instinctively wired into our brains.

This all powerful impulse has been harnessed by every advertiser and every filmmaker since the dawn of time and used to manipulate our emotions to desired ends for a reason, because it works. Besides food and sleep, sex is one of the most powerful drives man will ever know.

So what does it take to date an attractive woman? Biologically speaking, women tend to be wired to want the guy who can protect them and provide for them. In the caveman era, this certainly meant the guy who was the fiercest, the fastest, the strongest, the most agile, the smartest, the best able to hunt for food and defend against predators or aggression from enemies. Being leader of the pack and able to draw support from other members of the tribe never hurts, either.

What do women want in today’s world? Being fierce, fast, strong, or agile, certainly doesn’t hurt. Being leader of the pack is still desirable. But who is the leader of the pack? In today’s society, a man is theoretically able to protect and provide for his family solely based on his ability to earn an income.

The highest income earner is therefore the most able to provide. At 5' 10", 135 lbs, Bill Gates may be a financial provider, but he is probably not the most able to defend the tribe against a group of armed bandits. I could be wrong, but the probabilities are there.

Do women tend to want the richest guys around? Sure. If you have the other qualities desirable in a man, this always seems to be a plus. Is it the only criteria? Probably not. If you are well rounded, if you make plenty of money and are caring, giving, and athletic, you may well be attractive to women.

Or if you are very athletic and on your way to making money this could work. Or if you present some combination of skills which indicates that you *will* be earning money, that you are contributor to society, this could be work. If you are passionately working out of your garage on a business or in a band, this could indicate you have what it takes and make you attractive, at some point, if women know about it.

The bottom line is, you want to have something going on, or be well on your way to have something going on, and women have to know that you exist. It never hurts to have desirable qualities, such as honesty, integrity, a sense of humor, having lots of friends, all of these add to your potential desirability.

But first you must have something to bring to the table, and you must do something or go somewhere where you get around women who can see you in action, whom you can introduce yourself to. And of course it never hurts to believe in yourself and your abilities, and be able to convey that belief to the women or other people you meet. Paying attention to each woman you meet, and valuing her as a person, and finding like interests in common, never hurts either. And of course, follow up consistently. Be reliable. And have fun.