6 Wedding Traditions That You Can Kick

As time goes on, people begin to develop new traditions in all aspects of life. One aspect that is no stranger to evolving traditions is that of the wedding. Not too long ago there was a certain etiquette that you just couldn’t shake, pertaining to all kinds of components of your special day.

Fortunately, there’s been a lot of changes going on in the last decade or so that are giving brides and grooms a lot more breathing room. This has been great, because couples have more freedom in their decisions, and they can feel like their special day is just that: their special day.

If you’re planning your wedding in the future and need some advice pertaining to old school practices, we’ve put together a list of 6 wedding traditions that you can gladly kick to the curb and not think twice about. Regardless of what your guests say, this is your wedding day! So, really consider all of the traditions that are important to you and forget the ones that aren’t. Here is our list:

The First Dance Slow Song

If you’re a romantic, you may have been dreaming about this moment for as long as you can remember — and that’s fine! Lots of people still love the idea of having that first dance together while all of the guests swoon and take photos.

However, if you’re a couple who is just not into that, then get ready to be relieved. You don’t have to, anymore! In fact, lots of couples more recently have been embracing prepared, comical dance skits that include their whole wedding party taking part. Pick your favorite fun song together and make it even more memorable by surprising your guests with moves they’ve never seen before. Still set on a slower tune? Check out these modern songs to get your feet moving.

The White Dress

If you’ve never been a girl to feel comfortable in white, then why change that? Brides all over are embracing bridal gowns that are more their style and color. Browse through gown shops today, and you’ll find pink, blues, and even black wedding dresses!

There’s no shame in having a dress that speaks to you and makes you feel beautiful. So, if you’re not happy about wearing the white, then don’t worry, because this is a tradition you can happily kick.

The Cake

The cutting of the cake was always an exciting time for guests. Finally, now we can eat! But if you and your hubby don’t like cake, then why not try something else? The cake tradition is slowly phasing out, and more couples are now offering their guests tarts, candy, and cupcakes to satiate their sweet tooth!

If you still want to do the traditional cake cutting, consider having a much smaller cake decorated for the event. This way, you can cut it, and then hand out cupcakes or whatever you’ve chosen instead. This idea can even help save money, depending on which way you go! So, don’t worry about the cake tradition: Do whatever tastes best!

Inviting Children

Weddings can be extravagant, or they can be small and personal. Whichever way you want to do it, you are not obligated to invite all of the children! And not only that, but you’re also not obligated to invite everyone to the ceremony and dinner!

If you’re trying to save on expenses, suggest in your invitations that parents find a suitable sitter for the day, so that they can enjoy themselves without worrying about the kids. It is totally acceptable to have an adult-only wedding, and couples nowadays can be much more forward about their wishes for their invite list.

It’s also acceptable for couples to invite some guests to the reception only. This means that they can join in later in the day for dancing and celebrating, but that only a smaller group will be invited for the ceremony and dinner. You don’t have to follow the tradition of your family before you; if you want an intimate wedding, then that is what you should have.

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Pre-Wedding Events

Before your big day, there are a few events leading up that many people have embraced in the past. These include the wedding shower, and bachelorette and stag and doe parties to raise funds. While these events are still just as popular and acceptable, many couples are choosing to opt out of some of them to save on expenses.

In some situations, couples may also not require that there be a shower or stag and doe put on for them. This is completely acceptable. It is up to the bride and groom what events take place. If you don’t see it necessary to invite extra guests to another event, then you might be saving yourself a lot of extra time and energy from planning!

As a side note, don’t forget that many guests will be looking forward to wedding showers or giving personalized gifts. If this is the case, then small events may be acceptable for your taste — whatever works for you and your budget.

Matching Bridesmaid Dresses

It’s always fun to look back on old wedding photos and see what other brides have chosen for their bridal party over the years. While matching dresses have been quite the tradition that continues on today, many brides are going for more unique styles that let their bridesmaids stand out a little more with their own personality.

Don’t feel like your bridesmaids needs to match. There are lots of different versions of styles for them to choose from, and different colors/patterns are very popular now! The best part about this new theme is that your bridesmaids will be much more comfortable if they get to pick their style, and they might also appreciate picking their own dress to match their budget. It’s a win-win for everyone!

Your wedding will be one of the most memorable moments in your life, so you want to make sure that it speaks to you and your groom more than anyone! In saying that, make sure that your guests are well taken care of, but that you make the decisions that are most important to you. Lots of people will want to help and give their opinions, but take these with a grain of salt. Whether you go with old traditions or new ones, let people know you’re taking their ideas into consideration but that you’re going to do what’s best for you and your partner-to-be!

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