Ya it is tough to be sober. Not as tough as trying to embrace polarity though. Face it nobody wants the female/yin role. Why? It is all about doing baby. Nobody can hear you speak of being. Because you cant. Doing for others becomes second nature when one realizes you are feathering your own nest being benevolent. Being a man is no easier. This kind of human cares about others. Just like a real woman. What d know. Problem is in this cyber world of fake expression. Telling others about how much you care looks like…well you know what it looks like. All of the corporate slaves smell like Enjoli…male and female. A real human smells like nothing. Acts that way too!