Can you say generalization?
I know nothing about your life or experience. I suppose I could find out more if I read a bunch of your stuff, but I lack the motivation based on the above piece.
Perhaps you live a charmed life and can’t imagine the lives of those less blessed. Perhaps your women friends are shallow. Perhaps you take reality TV too seriously. I have no idea.
When I get together with my girlfriends, we don’t compare our husbands or discuss their character. Sure we might talk about what they are up to, their frustrations, their successes, their health, etc.
But cat fest? No.