If you are a gatekeeper or find yourself thinking we need a gatekeeper, the thing that is broken or missing is trust. So instead of judging yes or no, good or bad, consider this instead: what could I do to make it so that I have more trust in the people around me?
…es me as odd that we’ve all decided it’s ok to start lying to each other when we start job hunting. But, again, I get it. Bosses can be weird and petty. It’s just weird. Plus, I already figured out you were leaving, so it’s not a good lie.
…k I’m reading is a letdown and my legs look too white and the ice has long since melted in my glass and work is hard and there’s still no good way to be a girl and I don’t know what to do with my life and I have to actually deal with all of that. I never expected to make it to this side of the pool. I can’t believe I get to be here.