Published in The Bad Influence·Mar 2Why You Should Use the Word “Cock” in Your TitleAnd a few other things I’ve learned about SUCCESSFUL sex writing on Medium. — When I started writing here under this pen name in 2019 I did so quite specifically because I’d read a post by Tracey Folly about how much money she was making sex writing and I thought: “I bet I can do that, too.” Back then, besides Tracey, the only other…Sex9 min read
Published in The Bad Influence·Feb 23EmptyThrifty Word Challenge 50 #78: Blueprint — The Bad Influence1 min readPhoto by Shoeib Abolhassani on UnsplashEmptyThrifty Word Challenge 50 #78: Blueprint----6
Published in The Bad Influence·Feb 22My Married Boyfriend Was Cheating on MeThank God I realized it and had the strength to end things before it broke me. — Isn’t it so funny how history repeats itself? I was in an affair before, for a year and a half with my best friend’s husband, and I ended that affair when it came to my attention that he’d started sleeping with other women. It was one thing for me to…Infidelity6 min read
Published in SEXXX·Feb 17I Feel Like I’ve Finally “Made It” in the World of Sex Toy ReviewsLELO sets the bar high for vibrators — and they knocked this one out of the park. — Some sex stories stick with you, years after they were written. I’m not even talking about stories written by me — I’m talking some great stories on sex that I’ve enjoyed and appreciated over the years, and recently, this oldie but goodie by Stacey Herrera came to mind again: How to Love Soft Penis Sex A soft penis is a functional penis.medium.sexinreallife.comSex6 min read
Published in SEXXX·Feb 14Losing My Virginity Wasn’t So GreatI don’t regret it, but maybe we all deserve better. — I was seventeen in the winter of my senior year of high school, and for all I knew then, I was ready to have sex. I’d spent months fooling around, getting fingered, giving blowjobs… I felt like I had spent a thousand hours in a state of “heavy petting” and…Sex5 min read
Published in SEXXX·Feb 11This Clit Sucking Vibrator Does What a Cock Would DoBut that doesn’t mean it’ll replace the real cock in your life. — I have to be honest, for a while I got a little sick of reviewing sex toys and had to take a break. After having toys sent to me for review purposes for months, I finally started saying “No” towards the end of the summer to inquiries coming my way…Sex5 min read
Published in SEXXX·Feb 9Finding Peace in My Naked BodyAnd, not for nothing, some comfort too… — Hands down, my favorite and go-to feel good movie is Bridget Jones’s Diary. I identify with Bridget in a way that I don’t with most fictional characters. I feel like she’s exactly who I’d be if I’d ended up childless, single, and moderately successful at nearly forty:Sexuality6 min read
Published in SEXXX·Feb 4My First Vibrating Tongue Really Made me Cum.(Also, I fucking love my job sometimes.) — Yesterday I arrived home to yet another box that warned me profusely that it contained a product with batteries included — discrete shipping my ass, right? How many mini appliances can one person get in the mail in the span of a month? (So far, four.) I felt a flutter…Sex5 min read
Published in The Bad Influence·Feb 1Begging for TouchFifty Word Challenge #75: ‘Impulse Control’ — The Bad Influence1 min readPhoto by Inge Poelman on UnsplashBegging for TouchFifty Word Challenge #75: ‘Impulse Control’----3
Published in SEXXX·Feb 1Furthering My Case for FingeringThe simplest slip of the fingers can be the hottest sex act. — As I searched my archives before writing this post I realized I have written extensively here about fingering. Maybe not to the extent that I’ve written about blowjobs or spankings, but an awful lot, because it just happens to be one of my favorite sexual acts. So, needless to say…Sex4 min read
