I created this blog to share what I have learnt on my journey in this life so far. It may not apply to you. You may not agree with it. You may have had your own experiences and solutions that work for you in your own space and time. Perfect. Please keep on adulting in the best way you can because that post was not meant for you.

But, perhaps, one of the posts may resonate with you, inspire you, challenge you, or comfort you. Then that post was meant for you and I'm glad you found it. I hope it makes your life that much easier and the burdens you bear a little lighter or more manageable.

A word on privilege.

I must acknowledge the place of privilege that I come from. I am a heterosexual, white, middle-class woman who has lived in former British colonies. I have had the fortune of a good education, being taught in my home language, with parents who valued intellectual pursuits. I have never been without food, shelter, or indoor plumbing. I have never been racially profiled or discriminated against. I have not had to hide my sexual preferences or gender identity.

Trigger warnings.

This blog will likely touch on or delve into issues and topics related to suicide, depression, anxiety, and abuse. I endeavour to always do so with sensitivity and respect.