Here’s what I’ve found about the men I’ve met since deleting all my dating apps. — I mentioned in this article, that the men I’ve liked in real life are probably not the men I’d swipe right on. There’s a few reasons for this and I thought it’d be interesting to dedicate an entire piece to it. First, you should probably know why I got off…

Sometimes a healed woman hasn’t found another man, she’s found herself. — Men think they’re competing with the top percent of men looks wise. Some men will quote an arbitrary 10%, some men will say it’s 5%. Those same men will complain they’re being passed over for some other dude. What they fail to realize is, there doesn’t have to be another…

Social Media is starting to feel like an alternate universe when it comes to dating. — Everyone is partnered, but social media will have you believing men and women hate each other. The internet and reality aren’t adding up. Take the Vanderpump Rules drama for example. Yes, I’ve watched that show for literal years. I’ve been an ensemble cast reality TV junky since MTV’s The Hills…

Spoiler: They’re horrible. — I do not recommend downloading a dating app. I don’t think they work for everyone. Actually, I believe they only work for a select few. Over the years, they continue to get worse. After swearing off dating apps in 2021, I realized meeting strangers who you would never cross paths…

If he’s telling you he doesn’t want a label, you’re being played. — I woke up thinking about this. I started with a new therapist last week and had to regurgitate the story of my ex. Everything I told her can be found in my Breakup Series. I’ll link some other articles here, to give you context. As I told the story, there…

Does tearing her down make people feel better about not marrying a billionaire? — Jeff Bezos announced he’s engaged to his partner Lauren Sanchez. His divorce from Mackenzie was initiated by his affair with Lauren back in 2019. Since then, Mackenzie Scott has been remarried and divorced. Lauren was a family friend, maybe too friendly. Jeff was required to give Mackenzie 38.3 billion in…

Therapy should be more accessible. — I went to a party a few weeks ago with a bunch of people I don’t know. My friend and her roommate threw a little shindig and were nice enough to invite me. I got to talking with one of the party goers about our dating experiences. I lamented about…

A hard truth when it comes to traumatic breakups — your ex might be happy. — Some of our exes will continue the same toxic cycles they’ve always participated in. The new girl will have to deal with his antics and we can find solace in the fact that he probably hasn’t changed his ways. We all get giddy when we find out our ex isn’t…

This is for the single people who are over being sad. — This article is inspired by a girl on TikTok stating she’s just got done having a mental breakdown after hearing one of her friends is in a new relationship. Her friend went through a pretty bad breakup a few months ago, so she called her to check in on her…