Socialism vs Capitalism & Head vs Heart

We at this tender age of our 20s, often confused and unaware to various facts about the social system. In India we follow majorly socialism and some parts of nation follow Capitalism. Now why have i said majorly socialism is based on the fact that 83.3 crore of nation population is rural and 37.7 crore of population is urban(as per 2011 census). Moving on, many urban people are those who are first generation people from rural shifted to urban areas to seek better opportunities for themselves. Hence major portion of population belong to rural culture.
Now we are not saying rural culture is backward or bad. But given the nation’s history rural population has followed socialism since long time. Hence the mindset and attitude we developed is more of socialism. Well as a nation we have chosen market economy, which is more towards capitalism.
So if you find conflict between head and heart then, i tell you its totally normal. Because you might be belonging to those first generation movers from rural India. Since childhood you might have gain the concept like rich people are bad, one who has money must be corrupt, rich people are selfish people, one earns more is greedy for sure. So these kind of prejudice we might have developed in our hearts. Now when we switch to urban region, people have different outlook towards life, success and wealth creation. So this mis-match is very tough for many us. Because our hearts belongs to the place we were born and brought up which is rural for many among us. But our heads are trained at urban places.
Well the question now is how to resolve the conflict of head and heart. To find this solution our major portion of youths are giving their best shot. Yet do we have a strong try and tested solution for this. I mean for which part of daily life we should follow socialism and for which part we should use capitalism.
Now the main difference between both is, in socialism you should think for all members of group before making any major decision. Whereas, in capitalism you should think what is best for you while making choices.
So best model for this, Let us use both at different places.
While working for wealth and making money, one should think as per the capitalist theory. That means choose what gives you maximum returns or profit.
Whereas for relationship, family and friends one should think as per the socialist theory. That means choose what is best for the group, no matter you have to sacrifice some thing for yourself in the given decision.
