Here’s How You Know You’ll Be Just Fine After A Breakup, No Matter How Badly Your Heart Is Broken

William R. Estrada
Apr 6, 2018 · 1 min read

When your heart’s broken and you’re feeling devastated after a breakup, it’s tempting to believe that you’ll never find happiness again, but that’s BS. Not only will you rebound from your loser ex, you’ll be so much better off than you were before.

1. YOU KNOW YOUR PAIN IS CALLED GRIEVING, NOT GIVING UP.

It’s important to know that being in so much pain after a breakup is totally fine. That means you’re grieving what was. It means you’re feeling the loss of the relationship, of a man you once loved. As long as you know that your pain is only temporary, that means you’re not giving up on love.

2. YOU DON’T PLAY THE BITTER EX-GIRLFRIEND.

At the beginning of a breakup, we’re all guilty of stalking our exes on social media. When you see that he’s got a new girlfriend or is traveling the world and partying every weekend, you don’t get bitter, make snide comments, or try to ruin his relationships. That’s called being mature.

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