There is a huge difference between donating sperm and carrying a child to term for nine months. Please, don’t ever compare the two. It should be a decision made by the woman because she is the one who will have to bare all of the physical pain, during and for some after. It is her body. Not the man’s which is why men shouldn’t get to decide what is done, regardless of whether it’s the man’s offspring. If men carried babies, I would have the same response. Also, have you heard of the ERA? If not, I suggest you google it. The constitution is a document that explains the rights of “the people” which at the time were rich, white, land owning men.